QUESTION: I need your counsel, I just
found out that my fiancé has been cheating on me. I really love
him, please what should I do?
ANSWER: The fact that your fiancé is cheating on
you is a clear sign that he is not fully committed to you. You
shouldn’t marry a man that has an alternative or substitute to you. If
a man is cheating on you during courtship he will most likely cheat on
you in marriage. I will advise you to quit the relationship, it is too
early for you to start patching it up. You shouldn’t marry a man that
you can’t trust.
As to the fact that you love him, there is nothing wrong with your
loving him, you are supposed to love a man that you are engaged to.
However, loving him is not enough; he is supposed to be faithful to
you if you are going to have a happy home. Don’t marry a man who is
not faithful to you. I know some young men whose marriages are under a
year and are cheating on their wives. I’m sure you don’t want to marry
a man like that. I strongly advise that you pull out of the
relationship and trust God to bring a man that will be faithful to you
into your life. It is well with you.
QUESTION:
I want to ask about money lotteries and sport betting. Is it ok
for a Christian?
ANSWER: I believe Christians should not get
involved in any form of lottery or betting. Another word for lottery
is “GAMBLE”. We are children of God and we don’t gamble.
You also need to know that money lotteries and betting are organized
form of cheating, and no form of cheating is acceptable by bible
standard. Some people lose their money in lotteries and betting while
others gain from the loss of others. This is a form of cheating.
Neither lottery nor betting is one of God’s ways of blessing His
people. You should rather work and trust God to bless the work of your
hand. As believers, we should avoid looking for cheap money outside
God’s standard. It is the blessing of the Lord that makes us rich and
not any form of cheating, betting or lottery.
God bless you.