QUESTION:
My pastor has attempted to sleep with me on two occasions. Other than this issue, he is a very good man. What should I do Sir?
ANSWER:
Sister, there is one wise thing that you need to do; you should leave his church immediately without further delay.
Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body.
1 Corinthians 6:18 NKJV
Do not be deceived by his being nice to you. A pastor is supposed to be a shepherd but he seems to have become a wolf that wants to devour you. Leave the church immediately and find another good church to attend. If you do not leave the church, he may have his way with you. I do not think you want that to happen.
If the pastor is an associate pastor under a senior pastor, you should report him to the senior pastor with evidence to prove your claim. If the senior pastor does not do anything about it immediately, then leave the church. It is well with you.
QUESTION:
I know some people who are not Christians but have better character and behavior than many born again Christians. Are we saying they will not make heaven?
ANSWER:
This is not the first time I am hearing this question. Nobody will make heaven based on character or behavior. The bible is very clear about that.
Jesus answered and said to him, "Most assuredly, I say to you, unless one is born again, he cannot see the kingdom of God."
John 3:3 NKJV
Those are the words of Jesus. It is Jesus that said that no one who is not born again would make the kingdom of God. I am not the one that said it. No amount of good behavior will get anyone to heaven unless he or she is born again. It is well with you!